Problems can make me angry. It's tempting to express that anger. Sometimes it's even necessary to express that anger, in a productive and safe way. But, it's too much to expect that anger can solve the problem.
Anger calls attention to its cause. When it's a problem, we notice our anger. We get motivated to react.
Anger might be simply doing its best to identify a problem. Just don't use anger attempting to solve it.
-- doug smith
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