When you are solving a problem, do you consider its effects on other people?
Do you see your solution through the eyes of others? Better still, do you get those other involved in bringing their perspectives to the problem and the solution?
It's easy to think first about ourselves. It's easy to take care only for our own agenda. In our quest for justice it sometimes feels as if a solution that causes someone else to pay for our problems is right. It can feel fair to create hardship on someone who has created or perpetuated our problem. But is that useful? Is that a sustainable solution?
Centered problem solvers are careful about any solution that does not have its roots in kindness.
Without kindness, hurt and pain is only transferred and perpetuated.
Keep compassion in your problem solving.
-- Douglas Brent Smith
Fill your empty room with people centered and eager to solve your toughest problems. Contact me today about planning a centered problem solving session:
doug@frontrangeleadership.com
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